40, "a little overweight", 2.5 kids, job from hell, ex-smoker and tonights the night. The wife is in the mood. The kids are asleep, the neighborhood is quiet for a change and it's a perfect night to make love. Familiar, but still nice after all these years you begin your love making ritual, your right as a man. She's not as small as she used to be, that aching feeling like a splinter in your mind that started after your first child. "Does she still feel me inside?"

I've been there, I've thought it too. Even more so after the second child. Here's a survey fact gathered from my web site www.Herbal-SexAphrodisiac-Libidus.com/ . Guys with their penis's ranging from 4" to 9", 98 percent surveyed thought the same thing! A 9" guy worried about pleasing his woman? Hard to believe? A womans vagina will return to almost her original size within a year after her first child. So what has changed in him?

Emotional content? Time and age? Penis size? The answer is all three. So let us as men, look directly into the gaping maw of the lions truth.

It would take a much, much longer article than this to help everyone who is reading this with their individual, emotional content. But, the mind follows the body and the body follows the mind. So let's analyze "Time and Age" and "Penis Size". In a positive direction, that, becoming harder and longer in your shorts, will do wonders for your emotional content.

Myth #1: Your penis cannot be made larger without surgery or a miracle.
Fact: I have gone from 7.5", semi thin penis, to a 9", thicker member in under 3 months.

Myth #2: Penis pumps make you larger and thicker.
Fact: Pumps swell you for about 1-5 minutes and have no long term benefits. You can also burst capillaries and cause permanent damage. Keeping the penis swollen for long periods of time can increase your girth slightly over a few months, but it will not increase the hardness of your erection. Over time it will do the opposite.

Myth #3: Just taking a pill will give me more length.
Fact: Most of you have already learned by experience that this is false. The "Magic Pill" doesn't exist, but, it can be our best friend in making the powerful gains we really, really want, if you combine it with "Jelqing".

Ask any porn star...and I have...what is the best part of having sex on a constant basis. "The growth that comes from holding an erection for an hour or more, four to six days a week." Over time, this gives you permanent, increased, length and girth. Why? Did your brain already come up with the answer? Your penis is a muscle. It's time to start your own penis work out, starting today. It's time to go to the Jelqing gym!

Use these techniques at your own risk!
Never Jelq or exercise to the point of pain or excessive discomfort.

The little man. This is how we will think of our member from now on as we work out a fitness routine to start you on the road to more gain to the number one muscle. The penis is made of soft tissues much like the rest of the muscles in your body. To gain muscle you perform sets, from light to heavy, from minimum reps to increased reps. The penis can do curls and it can flex. Which sounds more like fun? Driving to the gym for an hour of sweating or a half an hour in the bathroom Jelqing?

The penis is composed of tissues. To lengthen it, you must massage it to make the tissue grow. If tissue growth can be achieved merely by swallowing pills, bodybuilders would not need to workout! Jelqing isn't complicated, but like any workout to get maximum gains, you want to focus on technique. You can have your new penis in 30 days or 3 months depending how closely you adhere to these techniques. Your doubts are understandable; this is virgin territory for most people. I have 1.5" more than I had when I started and you can too. If you only use these techniques for a week, you will feel better blood flow and stronger erections.

Preparation is a key component. The penis tissue must be made warm before exercises begin for maximum gain in a short time. An extra warm wash towel, wrapped around the shaft, for at least a minute is the best start. After being in a hot shower for 10 minutes also works well. Heat the tissue, start the blood flow, begin the stretch, then the Jelqing.

After the warming period is initiated, we will stretch the penis by placing your finger and thumb in an "OK" sign, behind the head of the penis. Use the head to stretch, were not trying to grow more skin, we are trying to lengthen the shaft. Basically we will point towards 12, 3, 6, and back to twelve on the clock. Hold each clock position to your own level of comfort for at least 15 seconds. Also include pointing the stretch straight out in front of you. So it is up, down, left, right and out. Ok, that's the warm up, pretty simple but very important.