How we spend our days is how we spend our lives. Annie Dillard Its true. Each and every small choice we make every day about how to live in the world adds up to a lifetime of happiness, misery, or somewhere in between. The good news is that while there are many things we cant control, like terrorism, there are many things we can, including our attitude. By choosing a personal lifestyle that includes balance, order, and beauty, we can better nurture ourselves and our families and in doing so have more positive loving energy to put out into the world. Balance means first and foremost getting a handle on your personal and family calendar. Carefully evaluate all of your current commitments and obligations to make sure the choices you are making are in line with your values. Like a closet needing weeding of outdated clothes, an ongoing review of your calendar indicates where you can cut back unnecessary obligations and best use your time. God has given us all special talents and abilities and we are called to use them wisely. Order is necessary for creating a firm foundation in our lives and homes and its the responsibility of every family member, not just mom! A home that has a flexible routine based on good order and smoothly running systems for household management is a harmonious home. Its not about perfection, but about NOT living in chaos. Wisely editing possessions frees up space and maintenance time that could be used for more pleasant pursuits. Beauty is the frosting on the cake of balance and order. When we have balance and order in our lives as a foundation, we begin to open our eyes and notice and delight in all the beauty around us such as art, good books, soothing music, good food, the beautiful sea, and wonderful friends to name a few. We can also create our own beauty at home, whether it be by decorating our home in a comforting manner, or by pursuing that much-enjoyed creative hobby. A welcoming and loving home is not about lots of money--its about comfort, grace, and ease. So put a lovely flower on your dinner table tonight, light a candle, and enjoy your life of balance, order & beauty! c2005 Kathryn Bechen. All rights reserved worldwide. |
